Sentimental Saturday -A Wagner Get-Together

The four siblings were quite literally spread across Canada.

As a result, they did not have many opportunities to all be together, in the same room, at the same time.

In July 1994, one of those rare instances occurred for Ellen’s father to get together with his Wagner siblings.

WAGNER Ivey Gordon Bernice Tess Phyllis Ralph

Seated (l. to r.) are Ivy (Harvey) Wagner, her husband Gordon Wagner, and Bernice (Wagner) Sexsmith. Standing (l. to r.) are Tess (Latimer) Wagner (Ellen’s mother), with Phyllis (Wagner) and her husband Ralph Moore.

As his absence in the photo is rather conspicuous, I suspect that the photo was taken by Ellen’s father Carl Wagner. It is likely that the four Wagner siblings got together likely in Regina, Saskatchewan.

Sadly, only Aunt Phyllis and Uncle Ralph are still with us, having just celebrated their 72nd wedding anniversary!

The Foley Brothers in WWI

Gerald and Clarence Foley, two brothers and my mother’s only uncles. They were the only sons of John Foley and Mary Jane Fitzgerald. My mother’s mother was their only sister.

Gerald, born in 1895, was the oldest by one and a half years. Gerald was also my mother’s favourite uncle and I am one of his namesakes (more on the names of the brothers in a future post).

My mother always loved to tell the story of her wedding day when she and my father stood, following the wedding, on the sidewalk in front of the church and were greeted by their many guests. My parents received congratulations and best wishes and then my mother spotted her two uncles sobbing, with tears running down their cheeks. The two brothers grabbed and hugged my father, blurting out “You poor bastard!”

In my journey to learn more about Gerald and Clarence, and frankly about my namesake Uncle Gerald, years ago I was able to obtain both of their World War I attestation, or enlistment, papers. Now, at long last, Library and Archives Canada has digitized and posted their full service files from that war.

Gerald was the first of the brothers to enlist for the Canadian Expeditionary Force. Although he was living in Toronto, Ontario, Gerald chose to enlist in Niagara Falls, Ontario on August 8, 1915. He made the required oaths and passed his medical examination. He was noted as standing five feet, five inches in height, had blue eyes and dark brown hair. He became Private Gerald Foley in the 74th Battalion, ‘A’ Company.

FOLEY Gerald WWI oath with signature 1915

Gerald’s service file records that his conduct and character were “good” during his time in the army but on December 21st, 1915, after 134 days of service and training, Private Gerald Foley, regimental number 451984, was paid what was owing and honourably discharged in Toronto, Ontario from the army with the assessment that he was “not likely to become an efficient soldier.” No other details are offered in his 14-page service file. Gerald returned to the family home and working as a teamster with his father’s company.

Clarence on the hand had different circumstances. in 1917, at the age of 21-years, Clarence had married a young lady from his neighborhood named Elizabeth Blunt. Clarence and Elizabeth Foley then set up house one street away from both their respective parents. Like his older brother, Clarence also worked as a teamster in the family business.

After one year of marriage, Clarence was drafted into the army and reported for his enlistment in Toronto, Ontario on October 29, 1918.  Clarence went through the standard medical examination which found that he was five feet, six and one-quarter inches in height, weighed 127 pounds but was temporarily unfit for duty as he was suffering from, well, er, um, a venereal disease.

FOLEY Clarence WWI oath 1918

Timing being what it was, Private Clarence Foley, regimental number 619550 became a short lived soldier in the 1st Depot Battalion, 1st Central Ontario Regiment. On December 22, 1918, Clarence was honourably discharged from the army because the war was over and the army was demobilizing. Clarence was home with his wife Elizabeth for Christmas.

I didn’t know Uncle Clarence as he passed away in October 1954, just months before I was born. I have some memories of Uncle Gerald, my namesake, but unfortunately the most vivid of those memories was attending his funeral with my mother in February 1968. At least, their WWI service files help fill in the broader picture of these important men in my family.

 

Sentimental Saturday – Happy Halloween!

I am posting old photos from my collection with a brief explanation of what I know of the photo each week.

Well, today is Halloween. It is a day that evokes memories from our childhood, of costumes we wore, of friends we went out to ‘trick or treat’ with, and, of course, of candy.

For some of us lucky enough to be parents, it also brings back memories of our kids as they excitedly dressed up in costumes and beckoned for Mom or Dad to take them out. After all, candy was at stake!

Last year, I shared the first Halloween that my family had with all three kids. The year was 1988 and our youngest Jenna, eight months old at the time, joined her big sister Lisa and big brother John for the compulsory costume photo.

Jenna, Lisa and John Hadden on Halloween 1988

Jenna, Lisa and John Hadden on Halloween 1988

Flash forward three years to 1991 and Lisa and Jenna were ready for all things spooky on their Halloween outing.

Lisa and Jenna Hadden all set for Halloween in 1991

Lisa and Jenna Hadden all set for Halloween in 1991

My late wife Karen usually made the costumes that our kids wore. In 1988, John was an ewok and in the photo was not wearing the head piece that Karen worked so hard on. In 1991, Lisa was, of course, a princess while Jenna wore a bunny costume made with love by Mom.

Sentimental Saturday – Carol And The Panda

Carol is my aunt, my father’s only sister.

This photo is undated but appears to be from the mid-1950s. The photo was taken in the living of my grandparent’s home on Darrell Avenue in Toronto and I suspect it may have been taken by my father during one of our visits to see my grandparents when I was very young.

Carol Hadden with her stuffed panda bear, mid-1950s

Carol Hadden with her stuffed panda bear, mid-1950s

It may be a bit blurry in the above photo, but it is quite clear in the original, in the lower right corner there is a magazine on the couch. It is a copy of “For Men Only.” At the time this photo was taken, the magazine was not pornographic in nature. That would come much later in the magazine’s twenty or so years lifespan. No, in the mid-1950s, the magazine contained fictionalized and sometimes lurid stories of adventure. I don’t know who the magazine belonged to and I may never ask.

Sentimental Saturday – Beating The Heat!

I’m posting photos from my collection each Saturday along with a brief explanation of what I know about the picture.

This week, a photo of Yours Truly beating the heat at the cottage by floating on an inflatable mattress in the lake. My family never owned a cottage but for several years my parents rented a cottage on Lake Couchiching, north of Toronto, Ontario. The lake was the centre of daily activities – swimming, splashing, exploring, and at least one year, fishing with my paternal grandfather.

The inflatable air mattress was always my favourite ‘toy’. In addition to being a great place to relax, it served as an imaginary pirate ship or sometimes a raft drifting down a river to adventure. It was also central to a ‘dunk the person on the raft’ game the whole family seemed to enjoy.

I suspect that the photo was taken, around 1962, by my father as he was usually the parent who handled the ‘technology’ in the family.

Yours Truly beats the heat on an inflatable air mattress, about 1962

Yours Truly beats the heat on an inflatable air mattress, about 1962

Sentimental Saturday – Summer At The Cottage

I’m posting photos from my collection of family photographs on Saturdays with a brief explanation of what I know about each picture.

This is my wife Ellen, aged four, playing in the lake at her family’s cottage on Manitouwabing Lake, near the village of McKellar, Ontario.

The cottage was a place of great joy for Ellen but she also remembers how long the drive from her Weston, Ontario home was especially for a young child. The cottage was owned by Ellen’s parents so Ellen spent the entire summer each year playing, fishing, and boating.

It is assumed that the photo was taken either by her father Carl or mother Tess (Latimer) Wagner as Ellen played in the shallow water near the shore of the family’s island cottage.

Ellen (Wagner) Hadden, aged 4, playing in the water at her parental family's cottage

Ellen (Wagner) Hadden, aged 4, playing in the water at her parental family’s cottage

Sentimental Saturday – Play Ball!

I’m posting photos from my collection of family photographs on Saturdays with a brief explanation of what I know about each picture.

Sometime in either the summer of 1971 or 1972, I found an old Polaroid camera lying around the house and, it still had a couple of film ‘sandwiches’ inside the cartridge. My recollection is that it was a Polaroid SX-70 model camera, not the type of camera my father usually used but clearly had experimented with for a very brief time.

My brother Bob and I proceeded out to our backyard where I snapped this photo of my younger brother (the shadow of my left arm and head can be seen in the lower right of the photo), not knowing at the time that I was producing evidence of a time when my brother had a full head of hair.

The tell tale remnants of chemical ‘gook’ used to instantly develop the photo can be can be seen across the top. And from the trees seen in the distance, it appears the photo was taken in the early spring as there do not appear to be leaves on the trees. It would have been a time of transition for us, from playing hockey all the time to occasionally mixing in some baseball.

Did you ever use Polaroid cameras or some other type of instant photo camera?

Robert Anthony (Bob Hadden abt. 1971-1972 (Photo by Ian Hadden)

Robert Anthony (Bob) Hadden abt. 1971-1972 (Photo by Ian Hadden)

Sentimental Saturday – A Mess Of Fish

I’m posting photos from my collection of family photographs on Saturdays with a brief explanation of what I know about each picture.

Ah, the great outdoors! Summers at the lake. Just the sounds of nature to break the peaceful quiet.

The Wagner family enjoyed life at the cottage and in the summer, they liked to go fishing. This week’s Sentimental Saturday photo shows their prowess with rods, reels and hooks. A mess of fish were brought home to eat. But first, the obligatory pose with the catch.

All the kids, from left to right Ted, Mary Jane, Scott, and little Ellen yelling something (or complaining?) to father Carl on the far right.

The photo was likely taken by Ellen’s mother, Tess (Latimer) Wagner in the backyard of the family home. The photo is undated but was probably taken around 1954.

Carl Wagner (far right) with his children proudly show off their catch of fish

Carl Wagner (far right) with his children proudly show off their catch of fish

Sentimental Saturday – My Parent’s First Car

I’m posting photos from my collection of family photographs on Saturdays with a brief explanation of what I know about each picture.

Okay, the car doesn’t seem to be central to the photo but it can be seen. This is a picture of yours truly standing in front of my parent’s first car, a 1957 or 1958 Dodge Royal Custom. The photo was taken near a cottage that my parent’s rented for a vacation week each year on Lake Couchiching, north of Toronto, Ontario.

HADDEN Ian in front of family car Jun 1959

Sentimental Saturday – First Summer

I’m posting photos from my collection of family photographs on Saturdays with a brief explanation of what I know about each picture.

Ah, the summer of 1955. We were rockin’ around the clock to Bill Haley and His Comets, laughs were gained from “I Love Lucy” on new televisions and the Ed Sullivan Show was becoming a Sunday night viewing staple. Yours truly just got to go along for the ride, below with my father (who is celebrating a birthday today) in front of my maternal grandparent’s home on Pickering Street in Toronto, Ontario. I don’t know who took the photograph as my father was the one usually behind the camera but given that the photo is a bit blurry, I’m guessing it was mother who was standing in as photographer.

HADDEN Ian and Dad 1955